From here on I know I will have some sad days but now I have the skills and support to help me cope.

When I lost my son to suicide I felt so alone and confused. The bereaved by suicide group was the only place I felt safe to show the pain I was in.

It is difficult to describe the amazing journey and growth I've experienced in the group - the meetings were a safe oasis where I found peace in my pain.

Counselling and Group Programs

Dr. Diana Sands is the Director of the Bereaved by Suicide Centre for Intense Grief, Lower North Shore, Sydney.

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For over two decades Dr. Sands has provided counselling for loss and grief following sudden, violent and traumatic death and in particular individual, couple and family counselling for those who have lost a loved one through suicide.

This kind of grief is so intense it can shatter a person’s world. I create a safe haven to support the process of putting together the pieces and telling their story, with the loved one as a valued resource and comfort to assist in coping with grief.

Dr. Sands an experienced family and narrative therapist draws on a range of counselling modalities and expressive artwork in supporting those bereaved. The counselling practice and unique mutual-help therapeutic, psycho-educational group programs for those bereaved by suicide are based on her research in suicide grief and the 'Tripartite Walking in the Shoes Model of Suicide Bereavement'. The group programs provide a space for a community of grievers to meet, gain support, resilience, and understanding with others who are also bereaved as they rebuild their life.

Community Activities, Education and Training

Dr. Sands is the Professional Advisor to Wings of Hope Inc., the voice of people bereaved by suicide, and is active in working on committees and conferences that educate and increase awareness about loss and grief issues. Diana also lectures on suicide prevention, postvention and intervention at the Jansen Newman Institute of Counselling and Applied Psychotherapy and provides understanding loss and grief seminars, community talks and training workshops for professionals in Australia and Internationally.

Publications

Diana is the author of a number of publications, including book chapters, academic journal articles and recently a book and DVD titled the 'Red Chocolate Elephants: For Children Bereaved by Suicide'. This workbook and DVD resource offers practical ways to sensitively engage with children about the difficult questions of a death through suicide. To place an order or find out more information, click here.

Open to Hope Foundation

The Open to Hope Foundation provides an online forum with information and support so that people who experience loss can learn to cope with their pain, heal their grief, and invest in their future.

Mental Health Matters Conference

Diana at Mental Health Matters Conference with Jennifer Coen, Conference Convenor, and Alex

Diana with Elaine Jensen, Treasurer, Life Worth Living

Diana with Elaine Jensen, Treasurer, Life Worth Living, who have received generous funding for Red Chocolate Elephants books and DVD's to be placed in Schools and Community Organisations throughout the Narrabi District.

Red Chocolate Elephants on ABC Radio National

Cathy VanExtel of ABC Radio National produced today's story on The Red Chocolate Elephants DVD/books being delivered to schools and those in need in the Riverina region.

Listen to Wendy McWilliam, Acting President Wings of Hope and Lexi King, Volunteer, Friends of Pastoral Care, Leeton District Hospital speaking along with excerpts from Red Chocolate Elephants resource.
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Diana with Lismore Mayor, Jenny Dowell and Rose Hogan, NSW North Coast Coordinator StandBy at the recent Red Chocolate Elephant Workshop held in Lismore.
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The 4th Australian Postvention Conference 2014

The 4th Australian Postvention Conference 2014 is being held 5th-7th June 2014 at the University of New South Wales. » read more

Stop Press – Leading British Charity is distributing Red Chocolate Elephants throughout UK

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“The Red Chocolate Elephants is a remarkable resource for children bereaved by suicide. This book will be an excellent resource for parent and child to use together in trying to face the suicide of a loved one...”

— John R. Jordan, PhD, International Author, Professional Advisor Survivor Council of American Foundation Suicide Prevention, Clinical Consultant Samaritans Boston Grief Support

Talking to Children About Suicide

When a loved one dies by suicide there will be lots of confusing and different feelings that are hard to find the words for. Children need reassurance that they are loved and that nothing they did caused the death. Most children will have a limited understanding about what suicide means and will look for information from adults that they trust, to help them make sense of this raw and painful experience. Your readiness to listen, talk and support will assist their understanding and help them develop the resilience to cope...
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• Counselling

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• Community Education and Training Workshops